‘We have received an email from your mother declining the offer of an appointment with us. She wrote that she wishes you all the best and hoped you’re doing well in life. Your mother stated that she did not feel it would be helpful at this time to meet up.’

The 23rd of Oct 2019 was the day it was final.

My mother has declined to be my mother. Again. My father makes a hobby of it.

I want to point the finger at Scn but it’s actually beyond that, it’s just a tool they use. My mother and father had such an explosive break that they wish the off spring (myself and my older brother) dead so as not to be reminders of it.

While shameful it’s my life. A mother who would rather I was dead and not succeeding.