Rebel! Fight back AND make plans to destroy them. Not an ideal situation but obviously a needs must when it needs to be.

An atypical parent wants their child to do well and wishes their own a safe harbour to have their own kids. Some are not and have other intentions for their offspring.

Namely people they can OWN and USE. This is not parenthood, this is narcissistic people who have their own desires first and foremost in mind and not that of their offspring aka they have somehow missed the point of life. Unfortunately this can result in a couple of common outcomes a) the ‘parent’ disowns the child. Too typical, which is a shame. Or b) DESTRUCTION, not so typical but still a massively more important issue resulting in more than one form of abuse.

Of course one starts a life needing some parenting. We all do. Animals don’t as much, many are close to being able to be self sufficient from the outset. Many of the animal kingdom need weaning from their parents but many do not and none need all the care that a human does.

We take longer to develop survival skills but mother nature seems to have a say in here.

It seems humans, the most likely to effect the outcome of life on Earth are kept back the most… to learn to get on with others and make survival more likely and less destruction more likely.

Collateral damage as a term should be in the dock.

In finding ‘better’ ways to have children mankind seems to have become somewhat waylaid or at least in the forum of parenting.

Mother Nature seems to want her most able species to be capable of the most compassion and empathy.

I said capable not tendency. Snakes, dogs and cats bite and scratch more than people do.

People still bite and scratch.

Try have compassion for your offspring, preferring them dead rather than incapable of empowering you (from your perspective) is wrong and disturbing.

Either of my folks are welcome to contact me and ask how I am.

Despite yous both being seriously involved in the pro Scientology and anti-Scientology argument.

I know you disowning me was nothing to do with you and all on my shoulders… but: family is family, right? Or is your ideologies?

I’ve learned that. I’ll see my parents at the funerals unless they wish to re-make contact with me or older my brother.